I’m 40 weeks tomorrow. My husband wanted to get some beer yesterday but decided not to in case we needed to go to the hospital. Today I was meant to have sweep but they couldn’t do it because my cervix wasn’t open. So he said he was going to get some beer because baby isn’t definitely coming today. He got himself a pizza for dinner and nothing for me and didn’t greet me when he came home, just went straight to bed.
My issue is 1. How do you know that? 2. He’s pampering himself, meanwhile I’m now having bad cramps and miserable! And 3. The midwife said for me to relax and for him to help with oxytocin and he’s being super unhelpful! I now don’t want to be around him because he’s bad vibes and I’m not feeling very oxytocin-full at all!
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I mean it was all fine until he didn’t make sure you had dinner too and just went to bed? Like sure have a couple beers whatever. If he has a control issue drinking, different thing. But in general, okay. But then to ignore you this close to popping, not taking care of you or even really acknowledging you it seems, definitely insensitive of him to the about to birth his baby mother of his child.

if I were you I’d def give him a piece of my mind. he might be doing this unintentionally but he could at least buy you food or share. I wouldn’t blame this on your hormones necessarily cause you’re at a critical stage of your pregnancy rn but your feelings are valid