Personally question for the mamas

Has anyone like lost interest in doing anything sexual with your partner since having your baby? My fiancé is very understanding about it but I can tell he’s getting frustrated about it, it’s been going on for almost 5 months now😅I’m just so focused on my kids and making $ that it’s like I don’t have any interest in it if that makes sense. Just wanna see if I’m the only one or not ..

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5 momths pp I have had no desire to be touched 😭you arent alone

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On and off for me sometimes I do sometimes I don’t but I think that could be because of other things happening in the relationship. If he’s a good man try to make sure your both enjoying each other

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Probably the first 3 months but we just don’t have any time for it. He goes to bed by 8pm and gets up for work at 3am. Baby and I don’t go to bed till 10 so he can fall asleep before we lay down so she doesn’t wake him cuz she’s loud till she goes to sleep

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When is too early for my ex partner to have my daughter overnight

Me and my ex broke up three weeks ago and he’s already asking to have her overnight. She is 8 months formula fed and semi co-sleeping

Since birth she has been very much dependent on me and breast fed for the first 3 months
Any advice?

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How old is too young for overnights with dad ?

Me and my ex broke up three weeks ago and he’s already asking to have her overnight. She is 8 months formula fed and semi sleeping

Since birth she has been very much dependent on me and breast fed for the first 3 months
Any advice?

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Moms, be honest has Ms. Rachel actually helped your baby?
Did you notice new words, signs, better communication, or anything else you could directly attribute to her? Or is she just a lifesaver when you need 20 minutes to get something done? 😂
I'd love to hear real experiences and how old your little one was when they started watching. 🤍

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Hi Girls

When should I start putting my baby down to nap, atm i'm still contact napping every nap in the carrier because he either wakes as soon as I put him down or if he does stay asleep he only sleeps 30 mins or less, hes nearly 7 months, im actually completely fine contact napping but im feeling v bad about it as if im doing something wrong and I should be teaching him now 🤔

If your answer is keep contact napping then when long term should I stop? Hes going to Nursery at 9 months old

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Hmm

Since giving birth me and my partner haven’t been very intimate and it’s starting to feel like a marriage of convenience at times. I’ve been complimented a lot of by other women. Don’t get me wrong I’m straight but women are beautiful and I’m starting to have second thoughts what it would be like to be intimate with another woman.

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Am I too late ?

Hey ladies,

I’m nervous that I may have bit myself in the behind ! I’m 12 weeks and 5 days postpartum and I am trying relactate with pumping. I had a weird journey with latching and everything and after about 3-4 weeks of trying I ultimately gave up with latching. With pumping it was just so uncomfortable and painful at the time that I didn’t consistently do it. I was pumping max about 3-4 times a day spontaneously.

As stated above, Im 12+4 weeks postpartum and I am trying to build my supply or even make enough for her to have a few bottles per day/week. Any tips and tricks to building supply? I’m trying to get more calorie intake, also changed flanges so I now have my correct size and it is as comfortable as it should be to pump. I’ve been incorporating at least 2 power pump session a day ( 1 session is 60 minutes, the next is 40). I’m also trying to consistently pump more, yesterday I tracked 7 pumping sessions (which is way more than I’ve ever done in a day). I have the Eufy S1 pros, Hygeia Fit Pro, and the Lansinoh Signature Pro pumps. Lastly, I’ve been doing a MOTN pump. I am getting less than 1-2oz per pump.

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