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In an argument with my baby daddy, who only wants to have anal sex

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Only??? A little concerning ngl

Only? That's a problem and a tad concerning. Also, it can be really painful and cause issues if not done properly, found that out with my ex. Don't let him pressure you. Has he given a reason as to why only anal?

He never wants to have regular sex? Uhhh

lol very sketch. I had an ex that was like this and when I finally put my foot down things started to fall apart . So I say I dodged a more traumatizing bullet. Anal sex isn’t wrong and can be enjoyable(I did enjoy it at times for sure) but it shouldnt be the only form of sex especially if you want vaginal sex. That’s something that both parties have to be in union on because anal sex without wanting it can absolutely cause unnecessary injury to YOUR body. Wishing you luck , stand your ground honey !

I mean… I like it sometimes when I got a bit of liquor in me to literally loosen me up but it’s not my favorite and him only wanting anal? That’s a bit odd?

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When is too early for my ex partner to have my daughter overnight

Me and my ex broke up three weeks ago and he’s already asking to have her overnight. She is 8 months formula fed and semi co-sleeping

Since birth she has been very much dependent on me and breast fed for the first 3 months
Any advice?

How old is too young for overnights with dad ?

Me and my ex broke up three weeks ago and he’s already asking to have her overnight. She is 8 months formula fed and semi sleeping

Since birth she has been very much dependent on me and breast fed for the first 3 months
Any advice?

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Moms, be honest has Ms. Rachel actually helped your baby?
Did you notice new words, signs, better communication, or anything else you could directly attribute to her? Or is she just a lifesaver when you need 20 minutes to get something done? 😂
I'd love to hear real experiences and how old your little one was when they started watching. 🤍

Witching hour

No point to this post but I'm certain babies can either tell the time or they're psychic...

5.15pm on the dot every night the screaming starts and it's pretty much constant until 11pm.

I can't wait for the next couple weeks to be over for it to end 😂😂

Whinging

I feel guilty for asking this but is anyone’s 4/5 month old just constantly unsettled? Don’t get me wrong, we will have periods of the day where he is happy, giggling and playing but he gets bored so quick and is so hard to settle once he starts crying. He does like a whinge all the time, not fully crying but just moaning. Feel like pulling my hair out at the minute, it’s so over stimulating xx

Baby sleep/napping

Our 5 week olds sleeping just weird. When she wakes up in the morning she will be awake for hours (7am-11isham) and then sleep for about 2 hours, feed, then go straight back to sleep for another 2 hours. Then once she’s up early evening, she literally stays awake for hours. As I’m writing this she’s been awake from about 4.15pm and it’s now 9.20pm and is wide awake. Our first slept a lot more than this and had the shorter wake windows you would expect.

Is anyone else experiencing something similar? It’s very strange