I have autism and social interactions are hard for me. I do not have a poker face when I am disappointed, feel left out ect. This morning I took my twins who are 5 to school like always. I do not know the other parents beyond morning greetings although I'd like to. Another Mom asked me if I'd be able to pick her up and take them to the end of year class party on June 26. I have a mini van so I'm a good person to ask. I realized then that my children who have disabilities were excluded from this class party because we have not recieved an invite. this other mom was assuming we were going because everyone was invited. I tried so hard to hide my disappointment but I failed and said I would be willing to give her a ride anytime but we were not invited so she should ask someone else. She said the invites came out two weeks ago. Did I do ok? I'm feeling unsure now and will overthink it all day
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If the invites actually went out and it wasn't just like a word of mouth type of thing, I would say ask whoever sent the invites if maybe they send invites and it just somehow didn't reach you or then you'll know if they forgot about you or not, but I understand there's another autistic mom it's hard when we need to be specifically invited

You didn’t do anything wrong!! Disappointed is how any mother would feel in this situation!
And another mother who really thought you would also be going likely very much so understands feeling weird & disappointed about the situation. 🫂🫶🏼 don’t beat yourself up over nothing