I haven’t Felt My Baby Move Yet

So I’m at 19 weeks now and everyone keeps asking me if I’ve felt the baby move. I haven’t should I be worried, is there something wrong with me. Are there different signs than these Butterflies everyone talks about?

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I have an anterior placenta and I have seen my stomach flutter & move in front of my eyes yet felt nothing internally 🤷‍♀️

so far everything is all good at all my scans and appointments

Lots of things effect if you feel them move. They are most active when you are asleep so you might just be missing it, and they are little so the sensation is very slight. If they are facing your spine, higher BMI can also impact it. It can also be swishing, popping or even discomfort. I'd only worry if it is after like 24 weeks and you still haven't felt them.

I'm at 17 weeks and have yet to feel anything that can be specifically identified as the baby. Sometimes I THINK I feel a flutter, but not long enough to say for sure.

Omg same I’m 18 weeks and almost 19 and I haven’t felt him yet I just feel like he’s moving but I can’t tell and when I got for my appt they are able to find his heartbeat fast so idk 😭

I didn’t feel mine until she was 21 weeks and everything was fine. It felt like a little swooping sensation. Once I had felt it, I realised it had probably been there for a while but it was just subtle

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