First Father’s Day ideas? Help

The hardest man to buy for

Hi this is our first celebration since having our first child in April and I’d like to do something sweet for my husband. I know I’m cutting it a bit fine but I’d like to get him something thoughtful but he’s the hardest man to buy for!

What he doesn’t like:

He’s the least materialistic/ thing person ever, he doesn’t ‘want’ anything he doesn’t like clutter or like super cringe things, doesn’t drink loads of beer, so no like dads glasses or coasters doesn’t die hard support a sports team, he already has watches, he doesn’t wear jewellery and he’s not the sort to wear like the custom dad embroidery clothes and hats lol not super into cars or cooking

He’s just a super low maintenance man just likes hanging it with us going to new places but I don’t want him to not feel special just because he’s hard to buy for and I don’t just want to be like happy Father’s Day here’s a scone 🤣

What he does like:
Quality time with me and our girl
Home made cake and food
Being outdoors
Travel
Gaming
Our dog lol
His siblings
He’s a carpenter

What I was thinking is a picnic at a national trust garden with home made scones/jam and sandwiches and then a nice walk but I also wanted to get him something thoughtful gifts but this is where I’m struggling!

I have ordered wooden D A D separate letters and want to take a cute pic of my daughter and dog with each letter and put in a 3 part picture frame and then we can replace it each year with updated pictures! And maybe a basket of his fave goodies like flakes and tunnocks bars lol

What have you got your husbands and are they as hard to buy for as mine lol

He did mention making a scrap book for our daughter of all of our days out together and write little bits about each place??

As I’m writing this I’m just thinking I do have a cricut machine so could buy a little scrap book and then make a custom sticker for the front, but what could it say?

in our community

Husband left 8mo. unattended in high chair at hotel breakfast

Husband went to hotel breakfast buffet with our 8 month old a few minutes to get set up. When I walked in I saw my husband on his own getting some fruit.

Our baby was strapped in the high chair about 10m across the room from him. When my husband walked over I said “caught you, you left our baby unattended in the high chair”.

My husband then immediately got quiet, claimed he wasn’t hungry anymore and was generally in a bad mood. I said “why aren’t you hungry anymore? Is it because I called you out on leaving our baby alone?”

He then stormed off and said “good luck with breakfast”, before sending a flurry of angry texts saying he did nothing wrong, he’s a great dad, and I treat him like a fucking child, telling him off like I’m his mum. He said “our baby has never even looked close to falling out”, to which I responded “it only takes two seconds”.

Husband now not talking to me and our last day on holiday is ruined.

Context: the high chair is an ikea one with only a 3 point harness.

I am right to be annoyed?

Me and my husband have a nearly 3 year old and a 4 month old
The only day we get as a family is a Saturday because every Sunday is taken up with him at golf. He promised when we had our second he would do it every other weekend. That happened for aboir a month then back to old habits.
I never tell him he can't go but I will make it obvious I am not impressed every week. Now my son is old enough to be upset when daddy goes off to golf its becoming hard.
Am I right in being annoyed or shall I just let him get on with it? I don't want to stop him doing things he enjoys, it makes him happy. I think even if I tried to stop him he'd still go.

How much do you share with people in your family or friends?

Is so interesting when I look at my siblings on my mom's side we don't really share information with each other unless we have to but when I look at the supplies on my dad's side they expect for you to share everything with them and they share everything with you. If so different when I look at it how does it work for you?

WWYD. Would this bother you?

I have a friend who is always checking out what we do, what we buy, how we do this or that, etc... When she comes to our home she mentions how nice this, how nice that, asks where we buy stuff, mentions how we “don't settle for regular things”. Every single time.

Comments about our shelves, towels, napkins, tablecloth, chairs, clothes, toys, plants, bag, mats, water bottles, Keychain, anything...

At the beginning I didn't think anything about it, I thought it was her way of giving a compliment. But after making the same comments every time we meet, it is a bit much and it feels like I am being scrutinized.

After we visit my family she asks my toddler - not me- how big is my parents house, how many rooms... I thought that was so weird and inappropriate. I am starting to feel she is getting kind of privy to our life and a bit obsessed.

Later I started noticing she would try to copy the same things. Again, at the beginning it didn't bother me, but after a while I found it weird she would want to buy the same things and I feel it is not normal.

I know it is not the end of the world but it has made me want to avoid her.

Greek yoghurt

What Greek yoghurt is everyone using? (uk)
I can only seem to find Greek style yoghurt, is this ok ? Is it pretty much the same thing ?

Does your 4.5 year old have bad separation anxiety?

If I even leave the room or my daughter can't see me, she hysterically cries. We can't leave her with anyone without her crying and getting upset and constantly asking about when we're coming back.
She cries and has to carried into preschool everyday.

Is it this normal at this age?