Velcro baby temperament

Baby is 2 months old tomorrow and I know she’s still so young and brand new to the world. She’s super sensitive due to her tummy issues so she’s always been a high needs, contact napping, constant holding/rocking/soothing, and co-sleeping baby. I’m a FTM and can’t handle letting her CIO. I love her so much but my back, shoulders, and neck are messed up from always holding her and having to rock her. Did anyone else w a baby w a temperament similar to my daughter’s grow out of it? Or did they grow up to be very sensitive toddlers as well?

Also, anyone have any experience w the Moonboon?

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I have a Velcro baby
He's almost 8 months now
Once he became able to move and do things by himself he's much better, i can put him down and he will self play or use his walker etc.
He still contact naps during the day 99% of the time. I get the occasional hands free or lap nap
But at night hes in the porta cot in our room. Most nights he'll end up between us though at around 3 or 4.
Hes teething again at the moment so he's a bit more clingy.

My left arm and shoulder arw crazy stong now ahaha

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Have you tried a carrier? Can help with the arm pain/ back pain

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Also I fed lying down in the bed which gives better chances to escape

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