Affair

Today is my birthday, and i found out that my husband been cheating on me.
And he still saying that i accused him. I saw the chat, he deleted already.
Couldn’t prove it now. So he still denied it.
Oh well doesn’t matter,i saw what i saw.
Kind of knew it’s coming.
So happy birthday to me yay

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in our community

C section

When did you shave after having a C-section?

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What is going on?

This is in my husbands search history within the last 3 months. Pictures in comments. Im pretty sure I know and am in denial 😞

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Nervous leaving baby with daddy

Anyone get nervous when leaving their baby with their dad? I get nervous because I can soothe the baby better than he can when baby crys

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Lazy?

When do you mammas have time to workout? Just at home?
I have a dog which I walk in the mornings when hot (walk at lunch if not) so up at 6am, Little one is up 7/7:30, preschool at 9, pick up at 4, working in between these hours. Then dinner and bed for 7pm ish. I’m struggling to find time to squeeze a workout in or am I being lazy and just need to be up earlier??

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Membrane sweep

If you had a membrane sweep done did it work? If so how long did it take and how effaced, dilated and your station when you had it done?

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Boundaries on providing labour updates

I’m overdue and due to baby movements and dropping from 56th to 28th percentile an induction has been advised, which is opposite to what I envisioned. The last week for me has been stressful with hospital monitoring and scans.

The issue is my husband’s sisters have requested for him to give an update on everything, I’m not close to them.

During their labours (even until this day), they explicitly asked him to not share anything with me. To the extent of asking him to not tell me one of their babies was born until weeks later. I understood then and I understand now, neither was I offended by their choices.

Firstly, I want my labour/induction experience to be private and avoid people calling and texting for updates. I don’t think it’s necessary to know what I’m experiencing or receive live updates unless you are my parent, one of my birthing partners or particularly close. All my friends haven’t even asked for regular updates, just a “let me know you’re ok when you’re ready.”

Secondly, something about his sisters wanting updates is particularly triggering for me now.

Just needed to get this off my chest but some of their actions/requests around labour and postpartum are beginning to irritate me.

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