Baby carriers?

I have a 7 month baby, and she is pretty heavy to hold now when I need to get things done. I’ve been on a search for baby carriers and I found two, the wildbird carrier or the tush baby with the snug. Need some opinions on which is better, or recommendations!

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Hygiene

I saw someone on here say they wash their children once a week… the ages are 6 years old and 9 months and I was just very much shocked 😭 is this normal in some cultures?

Bad baby

Anyone has an abusive little one. My 7month old loves to kick people in the face, slap, pinch, scratch. He has even punched his uncle in the eye a few times. Oh and don't wear a wig or bonnet around him. He also loves to pull facial hair.

I'm not really complaining I just find it hilarious

Edit: I'm aware it's not actually abuse but rather curiousity and exploration.

Falling out with colleague over being pregnant again

Today I had to tell my work colleagues that I’m pregnant due to working in a kitchen where we heavy lift stuff

And a response from one of them was ‘I think your taking the piss out of us, your always off and you’ve just had a year off and now your having another’ and she also said ‘ I don’t see how this is gonna help your mental health’ bare n mind this lady never asks how I am ask how my day has been always shuts me down when trying to talk to her
Also I took 7-8 months off with my first baby am I over reacting I went home so so upset

Bed time with 2 kids

I need some help on how I put my 7 month old and my 2 year old to bed

I can't leave one of them without hearibv crying and noise iv just had enough the baby is so loud just fussing and crying even when I close the door I still hear him and it triggers me

The 2 year old if I leave him shouts and screams then stops the baby from going to sleep I try put them to bed one at 7pm and the other at 8pm

Feel like sometimes people forget babies are MEANT to be babies…

Insist on them sleeping alone before ready
Expect them to be able to self soothe
Expect them not to be “clingy”
Expect them to sleep through, or if they do for it then to do it every night
Expect them to sometimes not just cry for what may seem like no reason

More controversial one but appreciate sometimes medically necessary - Eat solid food at 4 months.

Normal infant needs and behaviours are not flaws or issues that need fixing. More of a reality check post for any mums out there that think they’re doing something wrong because your baby is just acting like a baby.

But some of you do need to remember babies aren’t mini adults 🥴

Pp sex

Girlies I’m like 17 pp (C-section) my period has stopped and now my man looks sooo good so I’m asking how serious is the 6 weeks wait time for sex 😂😂😂