So f*cking stressed
This week has just been an absolute shitshow. I had a doctors appointment because Iām worried about my health (headaches daily, migraines weekly, unexplained muscle strains and pains and Iām bruising extremely frequently without any injury) and the doctor giggled throughout my whole appointment and said she doesnāt think anything is wrong but theyāll test my bloods in a months time!! I was literally in tears when she poked at my ribs to assess the pain I have in them, I told her itās interfering in my daily life, I donāt have the energy to workout anymore which I used to do daily, Iām wearing sunglasses inside for the headachesā¦ how the hell can they just brush this off. And if all that isnāt bad enough UC closed my claim and havenāt paid me this month because I couldnāt get on my account to accept commitments from last month even though I called them in MARCH and explained that I wasnāt receiving their log in codes on my phone number so I canāt access my account. My partner had surgery on his leg in April and had to have a month off which has resulted in our pay being significantly cut so we were relying on this UC money. I asked them to refute the closure of the claim and I was basically told it was my fault because the commitments had been there for a month and it doesnāt matter that I told someone I couldnāt access my account.
It feels like everyone I speak to for help screws me over or just treats me like a joke and Iām so fed up of it. Doctors, GP receptionist, DWP employees, all of them Iāve ever spoke to have been nothing but rude. It took a lot for me to get the courage to go to the doctor after which a bad experience when I was pregnant with my boys and to just be giggled at the whole time and told nothings wrong when I know myself this is not how I should feel has just blown my top.
Just needed a big fat rant, fed up of some of this adulting crap š
Would you go?
This weekend is a friendās kidās birthday party. We have planned to go, but Iām iffy. This friend is a woman Iāve only hung out with twice, once in a group setting and once alone. When alone, she talked a lot, which I didnāt mind, but she acted uninterested when I tried to talk. That last time was in March. Itās now mid-June and we have barely talked since our last hang out. My kids have never met her kid, but theyāre excited for the party and thatās the only reason Iāve decided to go. However, I texted her earlier this week to catch up and she read it with no response. Iām a little irritated, tbh. You invite us to your kidās party, but make no effort to establish a friendship in between getting together. Would you still go to the party?
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