Best prams/buggy’s for holiday☀️

Myself, partner and baby (who will be 9 months old) are going to Spain in September and looking for a pram/buggy for when we go. Any recommendations would be appreciated🙌

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Unwanted Cosleeping

Tell me if I’m justified in being mad about this.

I have always said I will never cosleep. My only reason is because I don’t like being touched while I sleep. I just don’t sleep well at all and wake up all night.

We have a 1 year old and a 2 year old that share a bedroom. I put my 1 year old down first and then my husband puts our 2 year old down. Well he started putting her down in our bed with him and he falls asleep and doesn’t transfer her. I don’t want to then transfer her in fear that she wakes up and then I have to stay up with her until she goes back to sleep.

She was also the best sleeper ever. I would put her down in her crib and say goodnight and she would go to sleep. My husband ruined it and would stand there and talk to her and rub her back so she no longer puts herself to sleep.

She also only sleeps on my side of the bed and she will pee. So now 3 times in the past month I have woken up in a puddle of pee.

Im furious. She shouldn’t be in our bed and he makes it very clear that he doesn’t care and if im unhappy about it then i should put her to bed. I know some will say thats the obvious answer but I literally do everything else when it comes to my kids. So I want him to help with bedtime. It’s not too much to ask.

Would you be upset?

Bedtime

Hi all,
My 6 month old goes down between 7/7:30pm and then wakes at around 5am for a feed and has a further 30/40 minute sleep before being up for the day but I’m just wondering what time is bedtime for your little ones? 7pm works well for us but a lot of people have said it’s too early etc for her age so wondering if I should push this to 8pm or even 9pm 🤔

Thank you 🩷

Sleep regression? Naps? help!

Anyone else’s nearly 14 month old just a bag of beans 24/7
This child just never sleeps 😂
So before we always used to get her down for bed about 7:30/8 but now she will not go sleep untill 10/10:30 no matter what we do but then she wakes up super early now as well usually between 6/7
We took her down to one nap a couple weeks ago as she was never sleepy for bedtime which seemed to worked for like a week but now it’s even worse
She usually has a 1 1/2 hour nap in the middle of the day, Just worrying she’s not getting enough sleep 😴
She has been walking for about a month and half now so not sure if it’s just regression from new skill as well😅

Sleepy

My baby sleeping at night from 10:30 pm to 7 am l am worried about this before he wakes every 2 hours now he is sleeping whole night tomorrow he will be 8 weeks is it something to worried or not l am waking him like every 4 or 6 hours whenever l open my eyes is it okay that l wake him or not is it okay that he sleeps like this

Mom guilt

For the last few weeks, I’ve been sleeping with my baby because it’s been almost impossible to transfer her to her crib. The minute she touches the mattress, she wakes up. I know she wants to be close to me because the second I pick her up, she falls right back asleep.

It’s been awful. I honestly haven’t been sleeping much at all. I haven’t been super scared of co-sleeping because I’m a light sleeper and can hear every little sound she makes. I also try my best to make the space as safe as possible by keeping blankets and pillows away from her.

But recently she’s started moving around more, and I’ve been finding her in some scary situations. Thank God I’ve always woken up before anything happened because I can hear her.

The real scare happened last night. I was so exhausted that I fell asleep without realizing it, and when I woke up, my arm was against her face. I felt so awful. I’ve literally been crying since 6 this morning. Then later, I found her near a pillow again because she’s moving around so much now.

I don’t want my baby ending up in a dangerous situation, but this has been so hard. It’s not like I can just choose not to sleep. I’ve tried over and over to put her in her crib, but she wakes up every time. Some nights it’s just a constant cycle of getting her to sleep, transferring her to the crib, her waking up, getting her back to sleep, transferring her again, and repeating it all over. I’m completely exhausted.

Pumping

Does anyone else hate breastfeeding and prefer pumping?

I find it so uncomfortable and stressful and find that pumping is a lot of effort but easier for me to manage. I have enough milk and don’t need to top up but just can’t get into feeding from the breast.

My baby was kept in hospital longer because he lost 12.5% of his birth weight and this was because I was giving colostrum and breast feeding in the first 5 days not realising that he wasn’t getting enough. This is also part of why I don’t feel comfortable breastfeeding - with pumping I can see exactly how much he is having and keep track.

Just feel like I’m alone feeling like this and although it’s so great that he is having breast milk it’s feels like I should be moving towards breast feeding but just don’t want to and feel guilty for that.