Implanon .

Few months after I had my third child , i made up my mind that I wasn’t going to have anymore babies , so I went to hospital and I was advised to use implanon , which was inserted into my upper left arm … ( that was in 2020) ever since that day I gained weight, there was a lot of pain in my arm , my period became terrible so last year September I took it out … but up until now my period is not flowing well and I’m just 35yrs old …

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Why is my last name the price of marriage?

I’m looking for some outside perspectives on a situation in my longterm relationship.

My partner and I have been together, on and off, for 12 years and have lived together for the past 7 years. We've talked about marriage, but we've reached a disagreement that neither of us seems willing to budge on.

He has told me that he doesn't want to get married unless I take his last name. The problem is that I want to keep my maiden name as part of my identity. I’m the last person in my family line with my last name, and it means a lot to me. My preference would be to hyphenate our names so I can honor both my family and our marriage.

He feels strongly that a married couple should share his last name, while I feel strongly about keeping mine in some form.
I'm curious how others would view this. Is it reasonable for him to make taking his last name a condition of marriage? Is it reasonable for me to want to keep my maiden name through hyphenation? Would this be a red flag to you, or just a difference in values that couples sometimes have to work through?

I'd appreciate honest opinions and experiences from people who have dealt with similar situations.

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Horny

Looking for a spicy talk

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Need a bestieee <3

Just a tired mom over here trying to build a peaceful home and find some real mom friends 🥺💛 Anyone in the Whittier/LA area who gets it and wants to connect? I don’t have family, it’s just me and my 2 daughters. and could really use community.<3

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Anybody wanna be friends

i want someone to talk to🥲 i’m actually gonna go crazy not having and girlfriends😅
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Do you wanna snap?🥹

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How come nobody replies to messages?

I don’t understand most people on this app. If we’re all interested in looking to make more friends, why are we not holding conversations or seem interested? I don’t know why, but I’ve been on this app for two years off and on, and barely anyone responds to messages, and when they do they tend to disappear. I’m done 🥲

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