How come nobody replies to messages?

Same unfortunately

Or when I do find someone to talk to it lasts max of a couple weeks and then they dissappear

Honestly, I know for me I get off the app for a little while here and there because sometimes I see too much negativity and it detours me from even wanting to be on here. So maybe it’s the app itself and just have to start getting peoples numbers or something lol

I have luckily made a few good friends on here and I will say when I meet someone I think I will click with I ask to meet for coffee or a playdate. I am not looking for pen pals just like when I used the dating apps, dont waste my time chatting, let's meet up. I also know that the women I meet on here are moms and like me do get busy so being off the app helps stay more connected bc i can send a quick text or Marco Polo to stay in touch.

I hope you do too! Do you live in a big area or small area? Have you tired your local groups like play groups, story time groups?