Does anyone feel like, life / freedom will never be the same? That’s maybe awful to say because I’m so happy my babies here but with the thought of my partner going back to work it’s making me think how life will be different for me
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I haven’t had my baby just yet (due next week) and I’m so excited to and to have a new life and be a new me but this thought does haunt me daily. I struggle to comprehend how I won’t also miss the life before and simply doing things that make me feel like me and like a woman not just for the child. It feels selfish to think because all I’ve ever wanted was to have children, but it also doesn’t mean I don’t feel like I’m going to lose part of myself. So yes, I feel the same and I haven’t even got baby here yet!

Yeah, i hated life when I had my first. I resented everything and wanted my old life back!
Safe to say it passed and I've had another and this time it's far more enjoyable BUT it is not a bad thing to feel that way. Life is amazing, it just is different to what you're used to that's all 🥰 you will feel better about it down the line x