Its hard to believe I’m a mom now!

I still can’t believe she’s my baby and that I gave birth to her.

Sometimes when she’s sleeping, I forget she’s even there. Then she wakes up, smiles at me, and for a split second it feels like there’s just a random adorable baby sitting in my living room.

It’s such a strange feeling because I’m not disconnected from her at all. I love her more than anything. My brain just hasn’t fully caught up with the fact that she’s actually mine.

Please tell me I’m not the only one who has felt this way.

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You’re not the only one feeling like this. My baby is nearly 4 months old and I still get like this

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Every. Single. Day. "Who's cute ass bebe is this? Oh yea it's mine!"

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