DLA message

Hey everyone, I’m just wondering how long did it take for DLA to inform you they have received your forms? I sent them 10 days ago and I’ve just rang to see if they have been received but they said they haven’t yet and I’m slightly panicking now as the forms took over 3 days too fill and don’t think I’ve got the energy to do it again.

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Kai Kai

I really js wanted to show yall my baby Kaizen 🥰🩵 he’s gonna be 3 months soon plz God slow time down 😭🙏🏾

Scanxiety!

Is this just me!?

I have a growth scan today- baby girl’s EFW was 13% at a scan 2.5 weeks ago. This is my third bay and my others have been 50%.

Any words of wisdom? I’m 32+3

8 weeks and tests getting lighter

Hi im currently 8 weeks pregnant and ive noticed that my tests are becoming lighter, I know your going to tell me i shouldn't be testing 🙃 but ive had 4 missed misscarriges in the last couple of years so my anxiety is high! I had a scan at 6+3 with a heartbeat and a crl of 7mm. I just dont understand why the tests are becoming lighter. Its not the hook affect because ive tried to dilute and it becomes even lighter, I have noticed the tests are darker with 3rd wee of the day rather than fmu. Has anyone else experienced this and everything turned out to be okay? I cant help to feel this is going to turn into another missed miscarriage.

Im having an elective c section in 6 days and Im absolutely terrified!

I have chosen to have an elective c section due to having a lot more control over the situation and other factors but now I’m really panicking! Theres only two ways to get her out and they both seem terrible to me 😂. I haven’t ever had any surgery and i even put off going to the dentist or getting blood tests due to my fears.

Im not even sure what I’m looking for here but hopefully hearing some of your guys experiences might help ❤️

Night Terrors

Hi,

My 5 month old has been quite often having these nightmare type stages of sleep, he breathes quickly and whimpers in his sleep.

This doesn’t happen every night but has become increasingly regular. When he is in these states he doesn’t breathe unless it’s with a cry and that panics me.

Is this normal for them to have these ‘night terrors’? Some of the episodes can last 15/20 minutes before he is back to sleeping normally & he doesn’t respond to touch or comfort which is how I can tell he is still fully asleep…

birth story!!

hi ladies i want to hear your birth stories! let’s make a thread below 👇
i’ll start i was 39w + 6 with my son had a unmedicated natural water birth, with my second i was 40w + 5 days and also unmedicated.