Escape plan…

I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with my second baby and have a 23 month old toddler. I had quite severe PNA when my first was born and found it really hard to adjust to motherhood as my village is quite far from me and my partner works long hours. My partner knew all my anxieties over becoming a working mum of 2 and recently went away to bury his grandmother and somehow had time to start an affair with someone he met out there. Mind you he has an easy life as is, comes home to a clean house/clothes, sleeping baby and food on the table. Our relationship has been under strain for the past few months but I never thought he’d stoop so low to do this to me. But hey such is life, we are from the UK and I need advice on how to secretly move my money from our joint accounts while secretly saving money to leave because I’ll be damned if I stay with someone I don’t trust and who doesn’t love me.

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So sorry you’re going through this ❤️

Things you’d usually pay for by card that can be cut out - cut out. Take out cash instead and say it’s for said thing if asked bc he wouldn’t know that’s false. Put cash in separate acct. Make transfers or take cash out and set aside and if he asks say you’re getting him a gift but it’s a surprise. ‘Spend’ a lil extra on diapers this week (but it’s urs in a diff acct). Formula too if you go that route. Shoot if not then combo feed. Let there be a couple of formula cans in case he ever wants to feed and to fuel the story. But you never buy more. You take money ‘for more’. But you slowly take a can away like it’s being used over time then boom replace em with the same cans but he thinks u bought more. Newborns are expensive anyway.

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I just want to meet baby girl already 😭🩷

I’m a huge advocate for letting your body and baby do their thing whenever they’re ready, even if it’s “late”, but man oh man do I just want her here already. 😭🩷

What Vitamin D drops should I give to my 2 weeks old?

Hi ladies!

What brand would recommend in terms of Vitamin D suitable for newborns and why?
Thank you

Horny

I’m soooo horny I just want my pussy eaten sooooo bad😭🍆🍑💦
Also my man is just not in the mood uhhhhhhhhh

Ya'll need to stop cheating lmao

Girls being shady af in this group. I see you and your thin ass excuses about your partner being kinda okay with you messaging women. They always ghost when I ask about their partner 😂. Ethical non-monogamy is a thing but this aint it.

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