So my dude he laughing he think it’s funny when I’m mad an when he make me mad like it’s a joke what can I do

I usually throw his stuff outside but I think I need a new change like I usually just throw somthing of his out but that doesn’t seem to work like he call me toxic an I’m tryna not be toxic an it irritate me when he laughing thinking it’s funny when I’m mad bc he made me mad at him

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Make jokes and laugh when he's having trying with something or is upset. See how he feels about it when you do it back to him.

Can you greyrock him? Like when he pisses you off, give him nothing. No energy, no anger, nothing. Just keep doing the dishes or whatever you’re doing.

Get out of that toxic environment before one of you gets arrested

I would start by saying this! Him not acknowledging you when you’re mad at him is wrong! Also you throwing his things out just to show how mad you are doesn’t solve the problem either! I would suggest, you already know what he does that makes you mad. Don’t wait for it to happen again before you talk about it, find a time when he’s most calm and cool headed and bring it up to him. Maybe after a meal or you both are watching a movie or a nice drive to the house or anywhere. Ensure the environment is right and set to hold an important conversation and bring it up to him. I want to believe he won’t laugh at the point and if he cares truly he will listen

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