Cheating boyfriend

I am 21 wks pregnant and just found out like 5 minutes ago that my boyfriend and baby daddy is cheating on me. He was texting his dad while I was sitting on his lap & and went to his emoji keyboard— there were some certain sexually explicit emojis that he has 100% not used with me. We just got home from building our stroller & looking at a house to buy together.

I said go back to your emojis real quick and he immediately knew he had been caught and wouldn’t do it. I said “you’re actually fucking disgusting” and all he can do is sit there, bite his nails, and say “why?” acting like I didn’t just find out he is cheating on me.

This isn’t the first time but it’s the first time in a long time and I genuinely don’t even feel sad I don’t feel mad I’m just so frustrated and upset that once again my intuition was right and my trust was broken. I have a low paying job and cant afford to move into my own place and I definitely cant take care of the baby on my salary. I just don’t know what to do

**I cant work more hours or get a better job because I need my Medicaid to help pay for appointments and my birth

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Hey sis find better pay else where without telling him stack up and pray to GOD keep GOD First and everything will fall into place cause if he do it one time he’ll do it again and again and again and again trust me I’ve been there

Hey girl, I'm 22 weeks. Just a question have you looked into WFH jobs? I don't know what you do but that way you don't have to worry much about daycare ( I work from home). I'm always getting job listing that are WFH, I can send some your way if you like..

Well it is reasonable, that if you can manage, to just stay roommates with him. I don't think keeping the relationship will ever be worth it, but no judgement if you do. As far as getting a better job, getting one that provides insurance upon hire and provides more money would help at least until the baby is born. And if he cares about you and the baby you guys can learn to be good coparents

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When I was pregnant, my baby's father abandoned me throughout my entire pregnancy and started a relationship with someone else. She doesn't know he has a child, and as far as I know, most of the people around him don't either that includes his family. My baby is now 6 months old. Since then, he's apologized for how he treated me and says he wants to be part of our son's life, but he's still keeping our child a secret from his family, friends, and partner.

Every time he sees our son, I can see the love he has for him and the joy in his eyes. But at the same time, another part of me feels like he's disrespecting our son by hiding him from others.

Is it reasonable to cut contact with him and move on with my life?

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Why do the father of your almost two children think it’s okay that he can do what he wants to do while your pregnant and hardly pays yall any attention and be glued to his phone 24/8

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