Breastfeeding issues & guilt

My baby was born on 21st June after a lengthy induction & a horribly traumatic time at the hospital. I was in a really bad place physically & mentally & feel like the first week completely passed by in a blur. I only just feel like we are starting to bond. I was hoping to exclusively breastfeed but it's just not happening. We have seen a lactation consultant which was helpful & we will be booking a follow up.

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This sounds like you are doing the right things. I'm trying to exclusively breastfeed my second and the first week was a blur to me too...it's only been 13 days for us and I feel like I've lived through years 🙈

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Totally! I just hope she doesn't remember that I wasn't really there for her in those early days.

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