Just need some kind words

I don’t really like putting my business out there but I’m due July 30 and pregnancy has been lonely but now it’s really intense since
birth is creeping up.
My biological parents & siblings live in the Caribbean & I only have extended family
up here. My child’s father and I were together but i recently broke up with him because of things i’ve been putting up with and now i’m just at my breaking point. I want to believe all his words about how he loves me so much but at the same time i’ve caught him following his exes back and the day after our baby shower one of his exes actually video called him. And he wants me to believe that it’s all innocent. He’s also leaving for a trip to the Caribbean next week but swears he’s not gonna miss the birth 🫠. I’d rather feel breakup pain and move past it then continue in a relationship where I feel hurt ever so often. I feel like my soul is crushed and just so heavy right now.
I know it’s gonna okay once it’s over but the loneliness until has kind of been unbearable. If anything can drop some prayers and kind words that would be amazing! 🥺🩷

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

Praying for you mama 🙏🏼 That’s such a heartbreaking situation to have to go through at such a crucial time. I’m so sorry to hear it! You are so strong to choose what’s best for you ❤️🤗 Hoping the very best for you and your new little blessing on the way.

My heart literally breaks for you and you should not at all have to deal with this bs you are such a strong woman to be able to go through this and still put a head up high we all love you and support you girl!

Sending you hugs right now ❤️
I can only imagine how heavy everything must feel right now, especially with your baby being just days away and going through so much at once. But please remember,you are a strong woman, and you are not alone. God is right there beside you, holding you up and preparing you for your next chapter in life. One day at a time 🙏🏽

I am so sorry you are going through this. Putting yourself first and accepting the heartbreak is so strong. You are showing your baby that you know what you’re worth before they’re even born. You should be proud.

You can do this. You are about to enter a wonderful era. While there will be challenges, you were created to handle them. You’ve been put here — right where you are — because you are built to come out the other side. Do you have any support system?

Feel free to DM me if you just need a friend :)

Use "my parents" &"my husband" sincerely, things will be fine.

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re carrying all of that right now. That’s a lot to be dealing with this close to your due date, especially without your immediate family nearby.

It makes sense that you feel overwhelmed and hurt. Pregnancy already heightens everything emotionally, and when trust feels shaky in a relationship on top of that, it can feel unbearable.

Whatever you decide about him doesn't matter. Just focus on getting through each moment and protecting your peace and your baby right now.

You deserve support that actually feels steady and safe, especially right now. I'm sending you all the love. You got this!

in our community

Has anyone ever faked a pass ouy or death?

I usually do different emergency things that could happen with my kids and yesterday I only had my 2yo son and 3yo daughter i pretend to have fainted (im 36 weeks pregnant) My daughter was on her device so she really didn't pay me any mind but my 2yo kept calling me and opening my eye lid thats when my 3yo came over looked at me and said "mom can you put this code in?" Lmao 🤣 do I need something more realistic or something for her?

formula - why did you use formula instead of breastfeeding?

looking to hear from mothers who DIDN'T breastfeed, please.

I should start by clarifying I have 0 judgment for either answer and am actually looking for some reassurance myself lol. I'm having a baby soon and honestly the more I learn about breastfeeding the more I don't want to do it. it just looks so constant and so exhausting and your partner can't help take the load at all unless you add pumping which is a whole other set of difficulties. I'm kind of tired of my body not belonging to me, I've had a hard enough pregnancy, and I'm just so scared of feeling chained to my baby as a food source instead of wanting to be with them and being able to bond. I also feel immensely guilty that I'm starting to feel this way, and like I almost need to go through the suffering of trying to breastfeed and physically not being able to in order to 'earn' the freedom of using formula.

Are there mothers out there who chose to formula feed not because they couldn't breastfeed but just because they didn't want to breastfeed? I feel like not wanting to isn't a good enough reason because 'breast is best' and I know all that but I just don't feel like I can face having to do it so often and at all hours without help. every mitigating idea I've had like formula as a base but with 2-3 breastfeeds a day everyone just says "oh that won't work it'll tank your supply and your baby won't get any breast milk at all." ok, I don't want to do it then! but I feel like an awful mother already...

really not looking for mothers judging each other in the comments please! I would really like to hear people's stories (and be set straight myself if I am being selfish) so please let them share.

How long are your 6 week olds sleeping for at night?

2-3 hours?
3-4 hours?
4-6 hours?

Just need some kind words

feel like i’m about to go insane

Wondering if anyone else can relate. My 6 month old won’t play with anything, she has so many toys and she’ll hold and try eat it for maybe 30 seconds then get so stressed and start screaming at top of her lungs. She refuses tummy time as soon as i put her on her belly. I can’t even
get through a little kiddy book with her without her kicking off. She doesn’t like being put in anything that’s not my arms. She’ll only nap if it’s a contact nap. My only break is a walk and she’s starting getting fussy during them now. She used to like the car now she screams so loud she makes herself choke and stop breathing. I literally have no time to myself and I have no idea what to do in her wake windows when she hates literally anything and everything.

Need advice asap

Ok so over the weekend my twins turned 2. My Mother in law was there and for some reason ever since my daughter was born she’s so loud and obnoxious when she talks to her, so with that being said my daughter has never liked her or wanted her to hold her. I have heard my MIL say she has a pug nose before (which she does not) and I told my husband and he never had told his mom to stop. So this time when she was leaving she had the nerve to say by ug pug Referring to her as an ugly pug! I’m pissed and I told my Husband and I know he’s not going to check her. I don’t know what to do any advice?

Just need some kind words

Trending

in our community

Has anyone ever faked a pass ouy or death?

formula - why did you use formula instead of breastfeeding?

How long are your 6 week olds sleeping for at night?

Just need some kind words

feel like i’m about to go insane

Need advice asap