Ranting time

My son turns 3 years old next month and I have a friend that has a 14 month old. We go to the playground together everyday with our kids. Naturally toddlers don’t know how to share their toys, they don’t want to and they also pull toys from each others hands. Right? Right. My friend is allllwwaayssss complaining about other kids (2 years olds, 3 year olds kids) that take her son’s toys, but they don’t share their toys with him. And I keep telling her that that’s what they do and that her son will be the same and she’s always like “yeah, yeah”. It’s sooo annoying to hear her all the time like “ugh, look at this kid, he’s so big and he takes my son’s little bike to ride it, but he wouldn’t share his scooter with my son”. Mind you the big kid she is talking about is 2 or 3. Do you think I am wrong? Because all you can do as a parent is tell them to share, but realistically they won’t until their brain develops to actually understand what sharing is. If a child pushes her son a bit for a toy, she comes to me so angry, like it’s a huge deal… 🙄🙄🙄🙄 today a child hit my son with the bike and he cried, but I didn’t say nothing because LITERALLY KIDS. What can you do? And she takes toys from my son to give her son like he’s allowed to take toys from kids, but other kids are not. 🙄 What do you think? I just had to rant to someone about this, because it’s annoying to hear her everyday.

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