I’m feeling really fed up with my fiance. I’m just over his constant attitude and he’s always annoyed at me for something. like even if you are mad at me does that mean you stop caring about me?? am I bugging?

I smacked my head against the wall super hard while standing up and screamed (I’m not a screamer typically lol). I was standing there with my hand on my head for a minute and he was standing in the same room feeding our son. He looked up, then continued with what he was doing. A few later he walked over all annoyed and was like “what’s the problem what are you being so loud for” and I told him and he didn’t say one word. Just walked away.

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This is a major sign from the universe that he needs to be an EX-fiancé. Don’t marry this man. I repeat, DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN.

Sit with that information and start making decisions about your future around it.

There is no love, nor even basic care of level of respect and kindness in your relationship. When men are this tuned out, it only ever gets worse.

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