Cloth diapers trouble

Hi, I need help. My baby girl is 9 weeks. We were using Kudos diapers and they gave her diaper rash. We have cloth diapers and wanted to give it a try. Last night I had her in 1 that only has 4 snaps in the front and she was swimming in it. She peed through the shell this morning so I put another one on her with 2 inserts, one is sewn in the the inside of the shell and the other I just laid on top. We have a few of these type but they are so big and bulky on her. She is only 7lbs. Is there a way to still use these now? She has a disposable on because she was histerical i didn't want to make her wait while we figure it out. This one too has an insert in the pocket and she is sitting on one. Is that too many? She doesn't poop often but pees. I don't want her to have a leak but these seem huge. I snapped the rise buttons top and bottom together and pulled the wings out but they still seem huge. She slips out of them a little. Idk what to do. I have all these cloth diapers I would prefer to use but idk if she is still too tiny. Thank you in advance.

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I’ve even tried introducing a potty but she just doesn’t get it yet at all.

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I’m a first time mum, don’t get me wrong, understand that all babies are different, but I would just like some reassurance.
My baby is 8 months old, we’ve had no interest in crawling, pulling self up, walking along furniture or going from tummy to sitting or vice versa.
I’m in a group with other babies the same age, and everyone’s babies seem to be doing all these things…
I wasn’t worried until I read what other babies were doing at this age, and it seems like a lot compared to what my baba can do.
I just don’t want to fail her. Please let me know if your baby was “late” or took a while to reach milestones.
Thanks in advance xx