26 weeks pregnant and im doing everything alone

Anyone else out there have a baby daddy/bf/partner thats so addicted to video games and screen time that they take priority over you and your future child?
2 games in particular have ruined my damn relationship! Ive expressed my concerns and hes willing to go to couples therapy but he refuses to see anything wrong in his actions, his obsessive gaming, and being out for hours at a time, at all hours of the day and night.
Im getting a c section in october and he doesnt think im gonna need that much help postpartum. Im so fucked!

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Nursery Fun!

Struggling with the heat so lets do a happy post!! Share what you have planned or what you have done for your nursery.

I've just finished painting ours and I'm so pleased with how it turned out 🥰

Job Guilt

How are we dealing with the guilt of not working? I haven’t had an “adult” job because i’m only 22 and worked mainly at farms and dog boarding facilities. When I got pregnant I switched to waitressing because it’s was more money with less hours, less physically demanding and safer. After my baby was born I’ve been staying home and my partner works.

But me and my partner were both used to a lifestyle we weren’t always stressed about money. My LO is 6 months old now, my state doesn’t do daycare vouchers and we have no family around that could watch baby full time so I haven’t been able to get a job with typical hours.

I’ve looked at trying to find a waitressing or bartending job to work on weekends or late nights but I’m having no luck.

How are we dealing with feeling like we’re not contributing? We’ve cut down all the extra cost we could and we’re still struggling. My partner just managed to pick up a second part time job but in combination with his other job he’ll be gone from 5am - 11pm 6 days a week and that isn’t something he’ll be able to keep up long term or something I feel okay about him doing.

Just why?!

Seriously, I really hope this is just a mistake because why?! That poor kid

How to transition to doing feeds and nappies out and about?!

Hi! My little girl is 3 weeks old today ✨️ we've been out a few times for short trips to have lunch or coffee but have always done it in between feeds. I feel like i need to go out more for my mental health but how do I transition to doing feeds and nappies out and about?! When can I go to the shops and do normal things without her being at risk from the germs?! Also worried about being in the car, she shouldn't really sleep in the car seat and needs to be out of it after 30 mins right?! Anyone else have anxiety about all these things?

How do you feel

How do you feel when someone who talks shit about others is going through something themselves? Someone on here kept talking poorly about someone’s husband on here a while ago and now she herself is separating from her own partner (who she boasted about in the first post months ago) and I just can’t help but laugh. Not laughing at her, just at the irony of it all

Baby off food during heatwave

Anyone else?