Anyone else feel completely alone in motherhood?

My husband is great and all but still suffers from the man privilege of being able to take the day to himself to go and enjoy his hobbies. Whilst he tells me I could do the same, it just wouldn’t feel right for me to leave and go off and act like they don’t exist for an entire day.

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...I mean he's literally telling you you can...

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I feel you, I’m 2 weeks pp and I’m already feeling it. He went out to watch the England the game the night I gave birth after he had to leave the hospital, he’s been going out twice a week to play football meaning after work he’s then out a further 2 hours. He even went out in the middle of the night when that England game was on at 2am. It’s hard and idk how to say to him look sometimes I might just want you to stay here so I can have 5 mins to have a shower if I wanted

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