This is something I’ve struggled with for years!! My husband will go out most / if not every weekend! And he doesn’t see anything wrong in it as he works hard all week, so wants to have a few drinks at the weekend but I hate it and he doesn’t see anything wrong with it. Am I being dramatic?
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Do you also get time to go out? That would be the biggest issue to me. My husband goes out at least one night every weekend, but I also get a night to myself and we still spend time together. If it's been a few weeks and I haven't gone out, then we have an issue.

I don’t think you’re being dramatic. He should listen and acknowledge your feelings. My husband doesn’t go out. I’ve encouraged him to go but he still chooses to stay home. He wants to spend time with his kid and he wants to support his wife. We are each other’s best friend and he’s made a comment like “why would I leave my best friend?”
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