Cot bumpers

Are cot bumpers safe?

My little boy keeps pulling himself up and then falling and hitting his head on the cot bars but I’ve heard before few years ago there not the safest?😩 has anyone got any advice?

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Breastfeeding

I was so adamant on only breastfeeding my baby when I was pregnant. I bought three different pumps to try out. At first it was going great. My mum was with me constantly cooking for me to build my supply and I was breastfeeding at night and if not then always pumping. The health care professional advised me that my LO wasn’t gaining enough weight and to top up on formula if I couldn’t get my supply up. As time went on I was being advised more bottles of formula as her weight still wasn’t getting to the right level. Eventually I would only pump 20-30ml of breastmilk. This was no where near enough and my LO would get frustrated on the nipple and wouldn’t settle until given a full bottle of milk. It was very disheartening seeing such little supply, I would pump until my nipples would turn inside out. Until I barely produced enough to I stopped at around 2/3 months and have been giving her formula ever since.

Everyday I feel so guilty for stopping I regret it so much I wish I tried harder. I look at my baby and think maybe she isn’t hitting her milestones because of this or she might get childhood obesity or develop illnesses in the future. Whenever I see women online pumping or breastfeeding their babies I feel like I failed my LO. Has anyone else experienced this? And I was wondering whether I generally didn’t have a supply or I wasn’t pumping enough ? My sister also went through the same thing.

Co-sleeping

Hi Mamas! My baby and I have been co-sleeping since he turned 1 month old. He is now 5 months old and has been sleeping longer stretches. He still wakes up to feeds like 2-3 times at night, I simply just feed him while laying down and would fall asleep together.

Anyways, I just want to know how and when did you switch from cosleeping to baby sleeping in their own bed?

I was thinking for our family, that we will wait for him to sleep through the night before transferring him into his own bed. But I’m curious to know what other parents have done 🫶🏼.

Intimacy with partner

My husband and I have been cosleeping with our baby girl since her birth and it’s been hard to get intimate and have sex because of that.
For those who coslept, how did you keep it going?

Bedtime

My baby is 6m old.
Bath is fine, he’s happy and playful, as soon as we take him out he is inconsolably crying, he screams super loud and won’t stop until he’s asleep. We’ve tried shortening the bath, shortening and extending the wake window, I know he isn’t starving I make sure to bathe him 1 hour ish bf he’s due to eat.
He might be teething, could it be related to that? Does yours do the same and when did it stop

Baby Screaming every car ride

Hi mamas! My baby just turned 8 weeks old and for the past 2 weeks have screamed everytime i put him in the car. the car ride used to put him to sleep now he screams anytime he's in it. any opinions?

When to leave baby

I’m a first time mom I’m 3 weeks postpartum and I have never not been in the same house as my baby and my husband has never held a kid before ours so I am wondering when people left their baby at all with their husbands even for 15min I am soooo nervous I cry just thinking about it but I go back to work full l
time in 7 weeks.