Just found out I’m pregnant with second

I have two 2 year 9 month gaps so a little smaller but not by much

Pregnancy is… different. Maybe you don’t remember all the time that you are pregnant or how many weeks you are. Maybe there’s not so much napping when you’re tired AF.

I didn’t tell mine for a reeeeaaaaallly long time because 9 months is a long wait for a little one. It will probably depend on your kid how much they’re interested and get it, my first was not hugely interested but my second was SO interested in my third. As they were more interested in the third that pregnancy was more of a family affair so we took them to a private scan and they were more present in appointments (most were at home) but for both second and third they were present at the births (at home!).

I think the only real left out feeling we’ve had was when my first was still breastfeeding and I was still trying to wean her when my second was born, she want particularly ready and she was having a really hard time with unrelated stuff.

I have a 19month age gap. I was going through all the motions like you are when I found out. The pregnancy is tougher when you're trying to manage a little one too. But honestly it's so worth it. The bond my 2 have is beautiful and you can really see how much they love eachother

Most days I have a child in each arm 😂 my little girl doesn't go to nursery yet so it's just me and the kids all day everyday. In the early days I prioritised my toddler over the baby. Now he's 6 months its a little harder to prioritise one over the other but you work it out. You do find a way that fits you and your family