Do you get slightly annoyed when comments go completely off topic to what was asked? Examples below

Some examples from things I posted or saw:
1. I posted a while ago asking if anyone gave birth alone (by choice) so that their child was safe at home with the other parent. Immediately people were like "I wouldn't give birth alone" "you need someone there" or the icing on the cake was someone commenting "your husband shouldn't let you do it alone"...like it's my choice he's not "letting me" in any way 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ just none of those comments are what I asked, when I said specifically those who HAVE

2. Someone states they aren't doing nursery (and are not changing their mind) then people comment how it's needed for this and that or how great it is... Again not what was asked

3. Someone having a tough relationship and someone posts that their partner is great and how they didn't experience this or that, when it wasn't asked

4. Someone asking about a C-section and advice on them and people coming on and saying "it's a major surgery I wouldn't" or "you should try vaginal" when they CLEARLY stated that they ARE getting a C-Section

I just find it slightly annoying as in I shake my head because I find some people can't read the room

in our community

Co-sleeping

Hi Mamas! My baby and I have been co-sleeping since he turned 1 month old. He is now 5 months old and has been sleeping longer stretches. He still wakes up to feeds like 2-3 times at night, I simply just feed him while laying down and would fall asleep together.

Anyways, I just want to know how and when did you switch from cosleeping to baby sleeping in their own bed?

I was thinking for our family, that we will wait for him to sleep through the night before transferring him into his own bed. But I’m curious to know what other parents have done 🫶🏼.

Intimacy with partner

My husband and I have been cosleeping with our baby girl since her birth and it’s been hard to get intimate and have sex because of that.
For those who coslept, how did you keep it going?

Boys and there parts

So my baby boy is 11 months old and I can’t seem to get a nappy change done with-ought him grabbing his baby parts and yanking on it😅. The poor boy doesn’t know when to stop and end up hurting himself but he’s far too young for me to teach him that he can’t pull it like that. We do no nappy time and all he does is play with it, now before anyone says it becouse I know I would I’m not bothered about him playing with it it feels nice to him and that’s all it is for him however I need to find a way for him to stop hurting himself anyone els baby does this and is there anything I can do for him to stop hurting himself or just let him learn

Routine

Does anyone have a set routine for their babies yet? With my first I know we were on a 4 hour loop from 8am-8pm but my second just seems so unpredictable.

Detergent for newborn clothes

What do you wash baby’s first clothes with? I’ve heard lots of people mention fairy non bio - but not sure if liquid or powder, and is it better to go for something scent free?

My husband is refusing to have sex with me as he doesn’t want to have another baby. He is pressuring me into having a contraceptive. BTW I’m 4 months postpartum. What do I do? Anyone else in this situation?

I have never been on any contraceptive am afraid that it’s too early to be on one. Any suggestions on what to do? He doesn’t touch me anymore and we have become so distant.