Would u move your best friend in?
We have a spare room here and her bd just broke up with her and is giving her 2 weeks to move out in the worst way possible, she gave birth 3 weeks ago!!! is not working obviously and has zero money and won’t let her have the car she’s had for 8 years because it’s in his name of course shit the house they just moved into it last month. The ex has been planning this for months knowing she will have nothing or no where to go including family. I don’t know what else to do but help fly her out here and help her get on her feet again and mentally recover from this!! What would u do? I’m also a single mom too and even my bd is sad at the way her bd did this and wants to help, it was cruel.
She wants me to move out there and it’s just not realistic my kids are in therapy 5 days a week and schools started in a few weeks and I live rent free in the family home basically so her moving here after she’s only there for him makes more sense I feel like she can actually save and plan better than us both struggling to make rent but atleast we have each other is what she’s thinking. We’ve been friends since 4yrs old
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Sounds like she needs a fresh start. If she's not willing to come to you all you can do is offer her a shoulder to cry on now and then
Don't make yourself vulnerable by moving from where you are. you'll end up resenting her and being angry with yourself.
Get her to stay with you. if she won't, help in another way but it sounds like you've got a good thing going where you are.
Maybe he's bluffing. Even if he's not, he's a big red flag.
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