About people being rude
So I am 13 weeks and two days pregnant today and I went to post about how my bump is growing finally and people wanted to say oh you can’t be showing your Bump anymore because this is about people people that are going through their second pregnancy and wanting to do their second journey, but I am in my second pregnancy and in my second journey so I’m not understanding why I’m not allowed in that group. It was TTC number two. That’s what the group name was, and I had to leave because of how rude these people were
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I wonder if the group is "trying to conceive number two" as in they are trying to conceive after a loss? That's the only thing I can think of that would make showing off your bump a controversial thing .. not sure if that's actually what the group is about or how accurate my assessment is 🥲 trying to conceive means you're not pregnant yet though, so it's probably just not the right group for that
It was a TTC: USA group and you had posted about your bump three separate times already. The person politely said that it was a trying to conceive group (and many are struggling and don’t want to see bump pics) and then mentioned that a group like this might be better fit. It wasn’t rude at all. I don’t have issues conceiving but many people do. The moment that I became pregnant I switch to another group that better fit that stage of life. There wasn’t any harm in them trying to protect their peace and commensurate with others who are still TTC in a TTC group.
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