Any thoughts on c-section vs vaginal?

I would much rather have a vaginal delivery than a c section if it's possible. I know quite a few who have had c sections and the recovery is a lot harder than vaginal. It's a major surgery on top of giving birth. People like to say it's the easy way out but Id have to disagree. C section mamas are so strong

I’ve been meaning to ask this question too! I’d love to hear from women who’ve had both, especially those who elected for a c-section.
C-section is the way I’m leaning towards now but I really don’t know what to do. Vaginal birth terrifies me 😖😩

I’m having a c-section

I had an emergency c-section last time, doing everything I can to prepare for a vaginal birth this time around. I did have to be induced last time due to high blood pressure, so if that happens again I will move forward with another c-section as my induction did not go well last time.

A lot of women who received c-section say they wish they were more educated about it, and how if they could re-do things, they would’ve pushed for a vaginal birth. Not only is it harder to heal from, (for some maybe not all) but it also makes it to where if you have a baby in the future, there could be more risks involved.

People underestimate and downplay C-sections - they are a major abdominal surgery! They shouldn’t be done electively.

I’m curious to understand the other side of it.
People who do vaginal delivery also go through vagina tear and get stitches and have few weeks of recovery. Unless it is not their first vaginal delivery.

How about that ?

would 1000% pick vaginal birth again over c-section. obviously, in an emergency situation, i would have a c-section, but i wouldn’t electively choose one if my pregnancy is healthy. beyond the fact that it is a major surgery that carries it’s own health risks for the mother, i want my baby to have the best chance at having a robust immune system and less chance of digestive issues and allergies.

Everyone I know who’s given birth (myself included) either preferred a vaginal birth or wished they’d had a vaginal birth. I’m throwing no shade at those who elect otherwise, but I do know it is definitely the more painful option with a longer recovery time. However, every mom has to decide what’s safe/best for her and deserves to make an informed decision. Good luck on whatever birthing option works for you.