Episiotomy TMI

So I gave birth for months ago and I had a ventouse ( suction cup) birth and got told I had to be cut. I didn’t want to but when I said that the doctor just keeps repeating himself explaining what it was.
Anyway I went off track…. I know this is TMI for some but I know nobody else who has had an episiotomy and I really don’t think mine has healed right
I saw a gp 12 weeks pp and she said everything looked fine but I’ve got tissue at the bottom of my vagina it’s like what use to be on the bottom right now just hangs from the hole?! And also the hole itself is basically diagonal now.
Can anyone share their experience with healing and everything?? Xxx

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i feel like i failed but it's not easy

is there anyone who's able to send any formula to me please? im sorry to ask but my daughter isn't taking breast anymore, she just refuses and cries I dunno if I don't have enough milk for her or something I switched breast and she still latches and unlatches within minutes and cries. I tried pumping but only drops so I don't pump I tried power pumping and it didn't increase I don't want to feed my child man made milk but I don't think I produce enough can anyone help please and thank you she seems so hungry

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Village is gone 😔

im sorry to ask hear but could anyone help with nappies until the 30th? I can explain my situation if needed 😭 not happy to do this but neads must xXx

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How long are you sterilising bottles?

I did it for the full year as advised with my son but I also find it a little pointless after weaning starts?😅 I’m not sterilising every spoon, plate, cup, bowl etc and didn’t with my son either🤷🏼‍♀️

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4 month regression

Anyone else going through the 4 month regression?
I’m struggling so much with it. She was just being affected in the day with naps but now it’s affecting her night time sleep too 😭😅

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Sleeping help!

My 6 month old is now too big for her next to me, it’s tilting with her weight and she is not sleeping well due to this but is still not ready fully for her cot, she has had the odd nap successfully but that is hit and miss? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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A friend usually makes comments about what I buy for my baby

My stroller, cutlery sets, car seat etc
The most recent one, the scooter. The comment was something along the lines of “as if going on military operation”. She even noted the brand.
Ffs I got it from Amazon!

I’ve usually feel very weird when she does this because the tone is abit off I don’t know how to describe it.

I know I’ve not given enough info to post here but I just don’t know what to do about this said friend. We usually hang out as a group with other people and I enjoy those other people and she is generally okay except for when is she loudly noting my purchases.

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