How to navigate having 2 children now

Girl! I am in the same boat as you. I have a 3 yr old son and a 3 month old baby boy. I was out and about all the time with my first born and I am always stuck at home with the baby because (1) he is clingy af and refuses to not be held and (2) doesn’t tolerate being out and about very long. I don’t even dare going anywhere with both of them by myself.

I love him but I’ve lost myself as a person because I haven’t been able to do anything for myself. I don’t say anything about it for fear of being criticized for not being a good enough mom. My husband and mom help out but it’s still a lot to deal with and my mental health is taking a toll 😔

Sorry I don’t have any advice. Just want to validate your feelings and tell you that you’re not alone.

You are not alone in this. None of us are; there are very few thoughts than that not felt by another mama. My son is 7 & my daughter is 3 months. Just this month I started going to library events, paved trail walks, and outdoor Block parties. With school starting soon my aim is to do 1 activity on the weekend; sometime I plan for 4 & ultimately just hope for the best. I wear a baby carrier & a backpack with diapers & snacks/bubbles for my son. Some days I do cry on the way home because of how stressful it can be; but mostly I feel proud for getting us out of the house. Good luck mama & remember you are never alone in these feelings 💜

Start small.(indoor places only to begin with) just so you can get the hang of it.library