Birthday present

Hi ladies just a quick question my cousin who is close to my younger sister recently inherited alot of money, and while I'm not jealous of her on my sisters birthday I requested that we put together and give my sister money to buy clothes because she hasn't got much money as a single parent and sacrifices her needs to cater for her two boys.

Is that too much to ask my cousin to do? She literally inherited thousands and I personally don't want anything from her I just cannot understand how as a cousin she can watch my younger sister who turns up to all family events with leggings, second hand trainers and shirts. She is struggling.

Im I expecting too much from my cousin? My sister is a really good cousin to her and this was just a one off for my sisters birthday not a constant expectation.

Let me know ur thoughts.

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You can’t expect people to do anything with their money. It’s just reality and don’t feel obligated to share or spend on anyone. But I do understand what you are saying

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