Hi everyone, my little one (soon to be 9m)has always moved her arms up and down excitedly when she is happy and this has sometimes meant we get the odd swipe across the face. However lately the swipes feels more intentional. For example when I'm rocking her to sleep, she's trying to grab my face, pull my hair, take my glasses off my face. We're going through a sleep regression at the moment but I don't think the two are linked as it happens often outside of the sleep setting too. We have tried to teach her "gentle hands" by modelling affectionate touch with her hands instead, but beyond this, we are feeling at a loss. Anyone else experiencing this and is it a phase (please say yes š ). Is there anything we can do that I haven't thought of? Thanks!
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My boy does this as well š think it's just developmentally appropriate and I'm sure they'll grow out of it š I just usually distract him with something else like a toy and that usually stops him

My 8 month old does this so much. Itās a firm no for the glasses as I really cant see without them haha but I let her touch and grab my face if sheās being somewhat gentle.
For hair pulling I gently move her hands away from my hair and try my best to remember she doesnāt know it hurts like hell. I usually hold her hand, kiss it and guide it towards her comforter to encourage her to grab that instead. Sometimes works sometimes doesnāt!
I read somewhere the face touching is all about emotional connection, soothing, comfort and a way of showing love. They are feeling comfortable with you and wanting to explore you more. If they are grabbing and pulling rather than touching and patting it can be a sign of over tiredness. Donāt know how reliable my source is though. X

Oh yeah I got stabbed in the corner of my eyeball the other day and couldnāt open my eye the whole day because she hit my face. She was playing and it was an accident but they still donāt feel good haah!

My 8 month old does this. I read that it is their way of showing love for you. Touching/grabbing at us makes them feel safe š„ŗ ā¤ļø. The reason it is so aggressive is because they are still learning about controlling their hand properly.