Cold vs warm breast milk

Hi guys, I’m really stressed after my baby had her 2 month appointment. He has stopped drinking as much milk. I’m exclusively pumping. And up until his shots he was drinking cold milk pretty regularly and without difficulty since about 2 weeks. For the last two days hasn’t been on his regular schedule. Today I tried giving him room temp milk and seemed to do well. Did anyone else have a similar experience where their baby developed an aversion to cold milk out of the blue? I’m not sure if the loss of appetite is due to the cold milk or just post vaccine phase.

Need some serious input for a very worried momma 🙏🏽

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Baby vomit or spit up?

This afternoon my 5 week old brought up her milk (she had just had 2 ounces of formula and about 20 minutes before 2 ounces of breast milk) and she went a bit pale after but quickly got her colour back. It was quite a lot and it came out her nose as well. She doesn’t feel hot she feels normal temperature. She has also slept a lot this afternoon, wet and dirty nappy’s have been normal. She has had some breast milk since nearly 2 ounces.

Is this something I should be concerned about? Should I be taking her to see someone asap or just keep an eye?

I just didn’t like that she went pale after. It was just the once and my partner said it’s normal for baby’s to be sick like that sometimes and that’s the first time she’s brought her milk up like that. I’m a first time mum and just really anxious about her health. She does spit up but usually just in her mouth and swallows it again.