Birth control

I am 4 months PP and my baby is mainly on the boob with an exception of a bottle here and there. I tend to have a bit of an over supply and pump 10+ oz a day after EBF. My OB gave me birth control at my 6 week appointment and told me to start it whenever. I know you ovulate before you get your period but I have yet to get my period. I am scared of taking the BC and seeing a dip in my supply especially as I go back to work and start pumping more. We have been doing the pull and pray method in the bed room which I know is stupid but we have sex maybe once a week if that. Looking for shared experiences when hopping back on BC. I take a lot of pride in BF and would like to continue till my daughter is at least a year.

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Is this cheating?

Me and my partner have been together for 12 years, he has been on websites to meet men in the past and I have found out etc. He swore he will never do it again, but i just had an feeling he was as we haven't been having much sex due to me struggling with my MH and our life is just a bit all over the place atm. Last time he said he just like to talk and have a bit of fun, but he has confirmed he has met men before for BJ's. So I haven't yet confronted him this time round as I have only seen the profile and nothing on it. But is this classed as cheating as its same sex but he swears he is not gay?

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Sex toys

Okay I’m in a relationship but we don’t have sex as often as I want. (literally like once every 2 months lately) I want to get a toy so bad (preferably a dildo) would I be wrong to use it when he isn’t around?

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Sexless relationship... I'm stuck! Help?

Fiance

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Being horny while pregnant

Just curious, for those who have had multiple pregnancies, which one have you felt more horny? My first I honestly didn't want to be touched, this time around I want it all the time haha. First was a boy now a girl. Just curious

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Feeling alone

Hi guys. I never thought I’d be up at midnight upset and desperately needing a friend and trying to find it online but here I am. I feel sad, alone & kind of shaken in my situation tonight :(

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MA Letter and Nursery Code

Hi everyone!

I applied for maternity allowance weeks ago and I did receive a text (13th July) confirming when my first payment will be and how much. But I still haven’t received a letter with all the details? My maternity leave technically starts August 10th and I need to apply for my eldest daughter’s nursery code so she can start in September and didn’t know if there would be details on the letter I’d need for that? Thanks for any help in advance ☺️

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