Is this cheating?

Me and my partner have been together for 12 years, he has been on websites to meet men in the past and I have found out etc. He swore he will never do it again, but i just had an feeling he was as we haven't been having much sex due to me struggling with my MH and our life is just a bit all over the place atm. Last time he said he just like to talk and have a bit of fun, but he has confirmed he has met men before for BJ's. So I haven't yet confronted him this time round as I have only seen the profile and nothing on it. But is this classed as cheating as its same sex but he swears he is not gay?

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Me 32f and partner 33m have a 2 year old girl, I’m 7 months pregnant with baby boy. We only have sex once or twice a month and 0 times last month. This isn’t on purpose or because we don’t want to, we are both busy with work or looking after our daughter we both get tired and run down to the point we don’t hardly kiss or hug etc, it just seems like we are ok with this amount ? I feel closer to him after we have “physical touch” happier of course, I just wish it happened more because of the feelings it gives me not because I am desperate for more sex. Just wanted to see if anyone felt the same?

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Broke up: almost 2 years ago
Together for: 2 months
How we met: sugar daddy website🥴
Fell in love in: 2 weeks
How it ended: he disappeared for 3 days because he was "too busy" and then came back on and off for weeks at a time
Still love them?: no
What had you hooked?: everything about him but especially the sex
Who's fault was the break up?: his
Last time you talked to them: 5 days ago
Would you go back if you were single: yes but only for sex not a relationship
Do you miss them still?: sometimes
Are you happy in your current relationship?: yes
If you could go back and change something to be with them, would you?: maybe
Does they look like your current partner?: nope
Do you hope they're doing well or suffering?: I hope he's suffering and regrets losing me but I hope he's doing well for the sake of his son
Were they your worst heartbreak?: yes

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Okay I’m in a relationship but we don’t have sex as often as I want. (literally like once every 2 months lately) I want to get a toy so bad (preferably a dildo) would I be wrong to use it when he isn’t around?

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