How often do you have sex?

Me 32f and partner 33m have a 2 year old girl, I’m 7 months pregnant with baby boy. We only have sex once or twice a month and 0 times last month. This isn’t on purpose or because we don’t want to, we are both busy with work or looking after our daughter we both get tired and run down to the point we don’t hardly kiss or hug etc, it just seems like we are ok with this amount ? I feel closer to him after we have “physical touch” happier of course, I just wish it happened more because of the feelings it gives me not because I am desperate for more sex. Just wanted to see if anyone felt the same?

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Sounds like a decent amount to me. I know there’s lots of couples who are at it like rabbits and couples who have 1 maybe 2x times a month. Whatever it’s comfortable for you, there’s no standard on how many times a months a couple must have sex.

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