Delivery anxiety

I really relaxed when I got to 28, 29, 30 weeks. While I want my baby to be full term the odds off then having any permanent consequences are really small by that point. You can look it up on Google. That helped me!

Horribly too! I over think so much too, I’m 28 weeks pregnant and I have lots of painful symptoms like back ache and what seems to feel like contractions but are not
I worry I might have a premature delivery ever since I entered the third trimester
My gynecologist said everything is normal
And that I should not worry if I don’t feel 7 out of 10 pain
If it’s moderate for less than a minute I should not worry
I have so much delivery anxiety too
Because I question my self, am I supposed to have any clue on how to feel or think when I’m already there? No I have no clue what’s inside that delivery room
Or what could go wrong or right
It’s all a gamble whether something goes wrong or I have a very smoothly delivery
Super anxious not Knowing what’s out there for us

I understand specially now in our third trimester
We are conscious about everything
I feel like that makes us better moms already tracking, and being careful, minimizing all hard activities and pushing

with my first i always prayed for a safe and easy delivery for both my and my daughter, i noticed after the fact the labor was approaching bc she would move way less even after eating i know every one is different with their experiences this is just mine, i knew it was go time when i started getting very hard period cramp feelings it would start in the front of my stomach and then work its way to my lower back as they progressed, i wanted to labor at home as much as possible and for my pregnancy baby girl was healthy i was healthy and thats all my concern was if your baby has been healthy and no complications and honestly i still wipe with a feeling that i hope there’s no blood just try not to stress too much mama if baby has been healthy throughout your pregnancy i dont think you should be too worried as you get further along too baby doesn’t have a lot of room to move as much as he/she was in the first and second trimester and baby might just be getting comfortable to make their exit

honestly if you’re really worried talk to your doctor and let them know all your concerns but you are getting further along so abby is just preparing themselves to meet you ❤️

I recommend you rest a lottt
And drink lots of water, being dehydrated also makes you Braxton hicks feel more painful or normal pain feel Like delivery contractions
Don’t forget to speak to your gynecologist about your worries this can also lead to mental issues, keep yourself positive and tell yourself anything that is meant to happen will happen no matter how much we try to prevent it But so same with everything good
May god give us a healthy delivery to the both of us
And keep yourself positive mind positive
If you have any paint rest drink water and focus on distracting your mind! 🥹
Don’t worry too much! And hope when the day comes, which we know soon you’ll have support and Strength, Mental strength too!