So I’m only just over 4 weeks but I’m trying to keep it a secret for as long as possible. This is my 2nd pregnancy but 3rd child as I had twins last time.
Last pregnancy we had some negative comments from people who I know were just projecting and probably hurting in ways but honestly this time I just don’t wanna hear it 😅 it’s a shame people can’t always be happy for others but I guess that’s not how it works 🥹
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If you’ve not been through infertility it’s very easy to say this. I was always happy for others but found it very difficult to be around anyone pregnant after two losses and years of waiting. Finally I now have my baby. But honestly I can’t explain to you the heartache I felt, the guilt k felt not being able to carry a baby without a miscarriage; the shame I felt for not being able to do what women “should be able to do” x