Devastated

Just found out today our FET with our final embryo has failed. This was our final attempt at a long hoped for second baby. I know we are so lucky to have one already and I will be eternally grateful for her. We are in complete shock that it didn’t work, we were so sure it had. We don’t have the money to try a fresh cycle and at 41 with a low ovarian reserve, there wouldn’t be much point if we did have the money.

Lots of love to you all in all of your individual struggles however they are going. Have to be made of strong stuff to get through life that’s for sure!

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in our community

The term sperm donor..

I read a post earlier and someone referred to their child's biological father as 'the sperm donor' as they have nothing to do with the child, is it just me who finds this disrespectful, inconsiderate and damn rude to people who actually used or are a sperm donor?

Because to me sperm donors are people willing to help people create families fir different reasons thst they need a donor abd shouldn't be categorised with men who cant be bothered with their children!

I'd love to hear other people's views on this.

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My partner had ASD

Anyone else expecting their first with a papa on the Spectrum? I could really use some support.🥺

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Just want to confirm this is negative right? :((

9dpo will try again in a couple days. So disheartening 🥲

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Recommended time to get pregnant again?

So I was told in an ideal world not to have another baby until 2 years after my current baby. Is it getting pregnant until 2 years or giving birth?
Ideally I'd like to have my babies closer together(due to my own age etc)

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Line progression?

I could be 14dpo approx. Top one is Monday bottom is today. I got a positive on a clear blue digital. 3 days since missed period

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Conceiving after 40

Can you tell me if you found it okay conceiving after 40 I have other children. I’m worried that I won’t be able to have more. I want one more next year.

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