I always told myself i’d have the perfect pregnancy , perfect “family life”. but it feels like my partner has gotten so distant and i’m in this alone . i don’t know what to do what to say so i just lay in bed crying now.
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It is actually very common. My only suggestion is try talking to them about it. If they cannot sit and understand and talk about it or get angry/ defensive then leave now before baby comes because they will not change and you will be doing it alone and trapped.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Have you tried couples counseling? Might help with having a 3rd party help with communication. Sending you hugs and best wishes 💕