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Hi I just had my baby yesterday but I’m considering adoption because I feel like I can’t do it with 2 kids by myself, but then again I don’t want to do that so someone please help me

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Hi mama God entrusted you with those babies because you are qualified to lead them and love them 🫶🏼 stay strong , go on a walk with them and clear your head , stay positive always

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You can do it! I know that it could be extremely hard. I have been there and I’m not really proud to say this, but I have four kids, and I did the same thing by myself for all four of them… I know it sounds rough and seems like a big head, but it’s worth it. It really is worth it. Worth it as in pushing through don’t give up your baby because the feeling might be just in the moment right now. Don’t do something that you will regret.

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I’m so sorry you are alone, if you were closer I would help. I can offer emotional support. There are a lot of emotions that come with giving birth and I’m sure you are going through all of them right now.

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Girl trust in urself u can do it

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Stay strong mama you can do it!!!

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I’m sure all the anticipation of being home with two babies by yourself seems very overwhelming, but you’ll get through it. Motherhood isn’t easy, but it’s so worth it and I think if you commit to raising your babies you’ll realize just how capable you are. It’s so easy to feel alone when you’re in the thick of it, but I would try to connect with a local group..lots of areas have FB groups, churches have connections, gyms have childcare, etc. We’re all here cheering you on and while I cannot physically be there, I’m only a message away. 🫶🏻

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Hi I just had my baby yesterday but I’m considering adoption because I feel like I can’t do it with 2 kids by myself, but then again I don’t want to do that so someone please help me

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Why do some people feel so entitled to babies?

Im not just talking inlaws, im talking strangers..
They see a baby and immediately think its ok to touch them/get very close

I totally get babies are cute but I would never in a million years get overly friendly..I just dont get it!

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Being a stepmom is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

Ive been a single mom. I struggled on my own. Being a stepmom with a bonus child who is parented completely opposite than I do is so challenging. The lying, the thinking they’re an adult, the not understanding when we say something is dangerous to other children in the home…I just cannot. I want to be close to my bonus child, but I’m tired of the constant correction. I feel guilty when telling my husband to correct her to protect our baby and to make sure she’s not getting into adult business or lying but it’s like what gives?!

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Ovulating ? Or Soon …

I’m new to doing ovulation strips - does the line have to be the same colour as the control line?

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Do we have to be regulated to be here?

I'm trying every day to be better in myself so I can be better for my children. It's hard and I'm a long way from being there but I try to gentle parent and use natural consequences, unfortunately my "husband" is permissive at the best of times 😒 So, what's the stipulation for being allowed to join?

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Progression

I’m roughly 4 weeks today - these are my progression pics from Friday when I first tested positive.

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