Mom looking for friends / Mamá busca amigas

Hi there! 👋☺️ Are there any moms around here who want to meet up at the park, have coffee while the kids play, and complain about not getting enough sleep? I’m Victoria. Leave a comment or message me if you live nearby and like the idea ☕. I live near the City Center ☺️☺️ and my baby is 2 months old 🤗💕☺️
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Hola 👋☺️ ¿Hay mamás por aquí que quieran juntarse en el parque, tomar café mientras los niños juegan, y quejarnos de que no dormimos?
Soy Victoria. Comenten o escríbanme si vives cerca y te agrada la idea ☕ yo vivo por el city center ☺️☺️ y mi bebé tiene 2 meses 🤗💕☺️

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Sex

Hey yall, is anyone else having a hard time being or doing anything sexual? For me it’s absolutely painful and I just have no desire to be involved in it. My boyfriend feels neglected and I wish there was something I could do to make him feel better, but even just the thought makes me cringe 😕. Not to mention the pain is excruciating 😣. I’m not sure what exactly to do to help myself or him.

Does Bd’s girlfriend deserve to know about me and his unborn child?

My bd is an ex from years ago. We hooked up in May and I got pregnant. He didn’t tell me he had been in a relationship with this woman since January, and says she’s in the middle of a divorce. Who knows cos he’s lied so much that I can’t be certain of what is or is not true at this point but he has told me she does not know about me or the baby, and disagrees with me that he 1. Lied to me and 2. Is lying to her. Do you think she deserves to know? I’m tempted to send her an email.

Alone Time

Is it normal to want to be left alone? I’m two weeks postpartum and there’s been someone in my home for the past week. I want to figure out my rhythm with my newborn without feeling like I’m tiptoeing around my own home.

Submitting my friend application

Hiii! I would really love a genuine mom friend in the same life stage that is preferably local to me so we can get together or veg at my house while the kids destroy the place. I have a 3 ans 1 year old. Here’s my application. I’m located in Oceanside CA and a little about me-
I’m 29, I will be working part time soon, I have two toddler boys, I’m an Aries (if you care. so basically I’m hilarious and will be 10 toes down for you), very much not religious, very much liberal, will love to have someone to text and or call consistently (pls don’t FaceTime without an appt bc I look like Adam Sandler most days). I love a thriller good audio book,tv show , movie. Love a coffee or a chai. Late night drive to Tj maxx? Anywhere to get out the house on a whim. Last minute plans will probably work for me. Trying to lock in fr on myself and filling my cup (skin care, workouts, journaling, mindfulness ). I don’t have socials other than tik tok which pls do send me your favs.

I’m really big on showing up for your friends and the kids. I love meaningful conversations and we can get right into it. I hope our husbands / partners can get along too and we basically just have bbqs and beach days every weekend. A girl can dream right ? Send me a message if you read all this and thought RT 😁😁

If you won tonight’s Euromillions (£59 million), what would you do with it?

Friday night dreaming 💭

Am I the problem

When me and my baby dad was together I allowed him to have female friends. He told me he knew his female friends for years whether from growing up or through friends of friends . Recently he told me that he was gonna to a party and that he was gonna crash on my couch for the night . Me forgetting that it was gonna thunderstorm the next day I told him he could stay another night. The night he went out to go to a party his friends bailed on him. My baby dad came over yesterday he told me that he was talking to a girl and he just simply wanted to be her friend nothing more . He said he wanted to get back with me bc I did a lot for him. He said that his photographer introduced them to each other. So I asked him if he told her that he just wanted to be friends he said no . I told him you have to be up front with females he said okay. It seems that he only comes to me for female advice if something happens to him. I did tell him that I don’t entertain drama and that now I’m focused on me and my son and moving forward with my life he said that he was gonna join me and not entertaining drama and that he wants to rebuild a relationship with me but my gut is saying to coparent for as long as possible?

Am I the problem or…