More children

Just had my first baby who is a month old and I love so much already and I’ve always liked the thought of not having a single child due to my love of my siblings yet my partner is telling me he won’t have anymore and that if I want more children “I will have to have the with someone else, I should be grateful I have one and he wants us time not loads of kids”. What’s your thoughts? Am I overthinking things/being sensitive?

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In the exact same here position 😢

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Your baby is still so so little and parenthood so so new. Give yourselves time!

My partner didn’t want another immediately pp our whole worlds had changed but by the time my first was around 18 months and we got more time to ourselves and into a groove he changed his mind x

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Postpartum can make you or your partner feel differently to how you will feel in a few months time. Your whole world has just completely changed, I don’t think it’s uncommon for your partner to be saying he doesn’t want anymore right now as everything is so new and well difficult! Give it time and he may change his mind, I wouldn’t stress right now only being 4 weeks post partum x

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