If you are also planning on breastfeeding, are you taking with you:
1. Formula and a bottle just in case or do you think it makes us more likely to give up too quickly to know that we have planned an alternative?
2. A manual breast pump in case it’s required to stimulate milk supply at the start? Or will you rely on pumps available at the maternity?
3. Are you taking soothers? I’ve heard it can confuse breastfed babies. Is giving a soother something everyone does?
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With my first I wanted to breastfeed so I didn’t buy anything like this and therefore didn’t take any to the hospital. I figured if I needed them we could easily get them from the shops or Amazon. Luckily I didn’t need any of these and I had the same approach with my second and will be doing the same with my third.
Your milk doesn’t come in until day 2 or 3 (it’s just colostrum to start) so it depends how long you’re in the hospital for.
I would focus on getting the midwives to teach you how to latch your baby properly as there is a knack to it so they successfully drink and it doesn’t hurt you. First time I found it took a few days to get the hang of holding the baby and trying to get them to feed properly without any assistance. It is a skill that needs practice. As you feed them so often you get plenty of practice and it soon becomes second nature.
I also found mother shaheda and Olivia lactation consultant on instagram incredibly useful resources.

With my first one I was planning on EBF so I didn’t bring any formula and bottle to the hospital and that was mistake because I just couldn’t get him to latch. With the second one, I was planning on breastfeeding but I did bring the ready made formula bottles with tits just in case. I stayed in the hospital for few days to learn to breastfeed this time and at some occasions I was supporting it with formula but I was relying on midwives day and night when the baby wouldn’t latch again.
So it’s up to you really. I’m planning on combo feeding this time so I will bring some bottles and breast pump with me. Definitely no for the soother as I know from other mums how hard it was for them to get the baby to drop them so if you want to spare yourself the hassle, I would not bother xx
The doctor told me you can't circumcise your baby boy with out the vitamin k shot, but I don't want him to have the vitamin K shot, but I do want him to get circumcised.
What are your guys experience?

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I am waiting for my daughter to be 6 months to start a sleep training method. Currently, she only does naps on me and nights are divided into two where my husband keeps her until 10:30-11:30 (she sleeps on him) and then we co-sleep. I am not sleeping obviously since she eats often or wakes up because she wants comfort🙃.
Any advice? What did you do? What do you recommend?
She’s extremely attached to both of us and we tried the cry out method when she hit the 4month regression and it was HORRIBLE. I cried with her, she was way too young. She’s 5 months now and we’re going on a trip but as soon as we’re back, for my sanity we need to do something about it🥲.

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hey everyone! i did a Keeping in Touch day today at work for the first time and left my little one with grandma, she was absolutely fine playing but when it came to nap time she cried so much because she usually feeds to sleep with me, around 4 months old she used to take a bottle no problem when I had my mum look after her but now she is refusing the bottle, I guess at 8 months she is obviously able to tell the difference and just doesn’t like it… Im just worried that she won’t nap properly when i go back to work fully because she won’t like feeding from the bottle.
Has anyone got any tips to teach baby to take the bottle too if they’re exclusively breast fed? Luckily today was just a half day so i ran to my mums to feed her and put her down 😀
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My little one is two years old. We put her hair up or clip it back so it's not in her eyes. I had bangs when I was little and so did my sisters, so my mom naturally asked if I was going to give my daughter them. My husband has also asked me if we're going to. I'm not sure about it. Obviously if she asks for bangs when she's older she can have them, maybe I just have bad memories of trying to grow out my bangs for a while lol and having them be crooked when my mom tried to cut them herself.

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What effects did you guys experience with your postpartum
trying to see if what I’m feeling is normal
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Hello! I've been breastfeeding for 7 months and honestly miss my perky boobs 😭😅 Does anyone have any cute bra suggestions to lift my boobs back up, so I can feel cute again in my clothes? Thankyou xx
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