Cut toddlers bangs or grow them out?
My little one is two years old. We put her hair up or clip it back so it's not in her eyes. I had bangs when I was little and so did my sisters, so my mom naturally asked if I was going to give my daughter them. My husband has also asked me if we're going to. I'm not sure about it. Obviously if she asks for bangs when she's older she can have them, maybe I just have bad memories of trying to grow out my bangs for a while lol and having them be crooked when my mom tried to cut them herself.
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I have bad memories of trying to grow mine out as a kid too, AVOID!!
Only ever if the child asks for em. Never ever just because an adult thinks it’ll be cute.
I recall being a child who suffered with bangs I never asked for 😵💫
Depends on how your daughter's hair grows. My daughters hair grows straight back and straight forward and no amount of training her hair or trying to style it, is making it move, so instead of her having to have her hair constantly up I gave her bangs so she can wear her hair down and not have hair in her eyes
I gave my two year old (at the time) bangs. I did it myself but I also cut my own in so I know how to do it.
She loved them but it really didn't take long at all for them to grow back out.
If you're unsure though, I'd continue to clip it back instead.
At that age it’s not hard to grow them out. My daughter had them from about age 2-4 and they worked great at keeping her hair out of her face. The maintenance was annoying for me - but it worked well for her face and she didn’t have a preference. She would actually look great with bangs now as a 10 yr old but she doesn’t want them so we’re not doing them.
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